I remember as clear as day my first time alone with a patient during my internship as a psychotherapist. I had been studying and learning during 5 years to be ready for that moment. There were study cases in theory, as well as in practice; a lot of textbooks, exams and live sessions. Yet I was shaking nervously inside. Can he see how nervous I am? Will I know what to say? What if I am not capable of helping this person? How did I overcome all these intrusive and not helpful t